Friday, May 10, 2013

The Nanny Diaries: Child-Rearing Challenges, Nannies,

I. Work with a partner:

1. Do you have children? Would you like to become a parent? What was (has been) (will be) your major difficulties while raising your child?

2. Is it more difficult to raise a child in modern society? Why (not)?

3. Do you agree that nannies are essential for raising a child nowadays? Why (not)?

4. How can one select a good nanny?

5. Were you raised by a nanny?


II. Read the tips below and rank them in order of importance for a successful child upbringing. http://www.wikihow.com/Raise-a-Child  


( ) Put parenting first. This is hard to do in a world with so many competing demands. Good parents consciously plan and devote time to parenting. They make developing their children’s character their top priority.

( ) Review how you spend the hours and days of your week. Think about the amount of time your children spend with you. Plan how you can weave your children into your social life and knit yourself into their lives.

( ) Be a good example. Face it: human beings learn primarily through modeling. In fact, you can’t avoid being an example to your children, whether good or bad. Being a good example, then, is probably your most important job.

( ) Develop an ear and an eye for what your children are absorbing. Children are like sponges. Much of what they take in has to do with moral values and character. Books, songs, TV, the Internet, and films are continually delivering messages—moral and immoral—to our children. As parents we must control the flow of ideas and images that are influencing our children.

( ) Read to your child. Helping to nurture a love for the written word will help your child to develop a love for reading later on.

( ) Use the language of character. Children cannot develop a moral compass unless people around them use the clear, sharp language of right and wrong.

( ) Punish with a loving heart. Today, punishment has a bad reputation. The results are guilt-ridden parents and self-indulgent, out-of-control children. Children need limits. They will ignore these limits on occasion. Reasonable punishment is one of the ways human beings have always learned. Children must understand what punishment is for and know that its source is parental love.

( ) Learn to listen to your children. Influencing their lives is one of the greatest things you can do. It is easy to tune out our children, and a missed opportunity for meaningful guidance. Helping our children become good students also builds strong character.

( ) Make a big deal out of the family meal. One of the most dangerous trends in America is the dying of the family meal. The dinner table is not only a place of sustenance and family business but also a place for the teaching and passing on of our values. Manners and rules are subtly absorbed over the table. Family mealtime should communicate and sustain ideals that children will draw on throughout their lives.

( ) Do not reduce character education to words alone. We gain virtue through practice. Parents should help children by promoting moral action through self-discipline, good work habits, kind and considerate behavior to others, and community service. The bottom line in character development is behavior--their behavior.

III. Watch the segment from the movie The Nanny Diaries and discuss the questions.


video

1. What were some of the cultures shown in the segment?

2. How different were the child-rearing issues addressed in the museum?

3. What do they say about Upper-East Side moms? How similar are they compared to you and your culture?

4. What do they have in common with your culture's and what are the major differences?

5. What is the role of the nanny in your culture?


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